Dating for a sexual relationship
The traditional dinner-and-a-movie trope feels false to him; it feels like it’s based on metaphors that don’t describe his personal experience of intimacy.Dating as a social institution can seem very flawed to asexuals.Sometimes romance becomes a part of an asexual dating relationship, and sometimes it doesn’t.For example, Gaia personally doesn’t have a binary between romantic and nonromantic relationships.
David’s partner says it is very different for her to claim asexuality as an Asian-American woman because Asian-American women are often desexualized.David thinks that there’s something wrong with how we talk and think about intimate relationships.He thinks considering people single if they don’t have a certain kind of relationship is hurtful.David’s relationships sometimes look like dating sometimes, but not always.Intimate relationships are incredibly important to him, romantic relationships less so.
Dating is about It isn’t always romantic and doesn’t always have to have romantic elements.