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You could say it’s the aggressive side of the insecurity coin. I would say, follow this law in matters that are really close to your heart. Stop making identity meaning out of external events. So, if by travelling you mean seek out interesting people, yes, I agree. Make your model and reality as real as possible and make it the center of your life. Accept and Embrace the transition anexiety as an opportunity to see things from a beginners perspective automatically. Just keep at it – learn and embrace the transitionb. If you teach it, you learn it a lot faster and can internalize it much better. Then make a checklist of what you admire or hate in them. Come on, this is just another patch for insecurity. Become selfish about your priorities and put top level on what you want to achieve. Other than that you don’t need to go and read ‘chick magazines’. Ideally have some of them like the women you’d want to have as your girl. Learn to turn women on mentally, emotionally and physically. Would be nice if this law also explained how to accomplish this. If you check out her boobs and she asks, just say – I am looking at your tits. The other side is being meek, self-loathing and overly subservient. If others disapprove of what you do then it is their problem, not yours. I’m sorry, but staring at landscapes in foreign countries didn’t change me at all. Well, yes, with all the external input raining down on us every day, and all the messages we get to change something about ourselves by bying something, it’s a must to keep realizing who you want to be. When you do a new thing, you are out of your comfort zone. Don’t worry about how you will look when you fail or what people will assume. Maybe blog about it, have a private mastermind or talk about it with a friend. Learn to identify the social status of others by commiunication and body language instantly. Learning to interpret body language and trusting the intuition you have about people’s non-verbal signals is very important. And perfect practice means taking things seriously and always fine-tuning things to the next level. Then make those things you admire in others as your habits conciously and try to eliminate what you hate in others. She’s looking for a man, not a woman who reads the same magazines as she does. And you don’t need to go be a clown, to -again- mask insecurities. It helps you with preselection and a good social circle. Give her emotions, sexualize and turn her on at all levels. As silly as he may have phrased it, yes, it won’t hurt to read a good book on sexual technique. Build postivie responses so that you come out as that fun and crazy guy that they want around themselves. I wouldn’t recommend using the word ‘tits’ in this setting, but if you’re looking at her breasts and she asks, well, yes, admit it. Remember what your eyes see, your mind believes – don’t let that happen. If she creates drama, it is basically a representation of who she is as a person. You didn’t approach her with your main priority being the discussion of the US Constitution, ok, but you will have to engage her mind, not just her emotions. Women like men who have other important things to do besides spending time with her. While building this business, De Angelo set out to build his skills at meeting women through a number of avenues, including seeking the counsel of "naturals" (men who are naturally good with women) and students of women such as Hypnotica (Eric Von Sydow) Steve Piccus, Dave Riker, Rick H, and as a protégé of Ross Jeffries.During this period, De Angelo went by the on-line nickname "Sisonpyh" Finally switching to the handle "David De Angelo" in 2001, he released an updated, expanded, and somewhat more politically-correct version of the post as the ebook Double Your Dating, at the time the sole product of the eponymous company he ran by himself from the bedroom of his oceanside apartment in San Diego.He suggests that societal conditioning has programmed many modern men to develop involuntary habits that increase the failure rate of consistently attracting women or negate the attractive qualities that were designed to make women want them.
More about De Angelo and his audio/video programs and ebooks: Angelo Watch a clip of the ACTUAL materials from the DVD version samlple commercials of the program in Windows Media, QT and Real Video formats: MP3 files (english only)Audio Book: David De Angelo - 77 Laws Of Success With Women And Dating . You can hate bureaucracy, but there’s rarely a way around it, unless you live in Russia and you have plenty of cash to bribe people…Then you can nag about corruption in Russia, but again, there won’t be much of a way around it.No, this is about accepting that you have to learn how to overcome certain obstacles or principles to get where you want to be. It doesn’t empower you, it makes you less constructive and blocks your creativity. Don’t give them gifts and attention that they haven’t earned. Still, you can look like a bum (if you don’t stink) and still seduce a woman.Toss the insecurity coin away and build genuine confidence. Figure out what’s stopping you and start working on fixing it up. This law sounds like an invitation to beat yourself up. Don’t try to analyze it much or make a genrealization out if it. You have not failed – I am not a failure because something has not worked out. Remember 80/20 principle and focus on things that make the biggest impact on you achieving the goals that you want to achieve. It just taught me I don’t care about most landscapes. As a teacher/therapist I can tell you that explaining something to others is THE way to really store a piece of knowledge or a stroke of insight, much more solidly than if you just read it or hear it. As Bruce Lee is said to have said: ‘Knowing without doing, is not knowing.’ 26. If you lose your emotions on something, that means you have to work on it. Prove to yourself over and over that you can deal with rejection. If you don’t get this reference, start watching the entire series of Friends right now and forget this silly law… Take responsibility for your emotions and don’t let any external factors impact them. If they do something wrong or something you don’t approve, tell them. I so wish the line ‘call girls out if they shit on you’ wouldn’t be in this paragraph. Looking away while talking is a high status symbol. And yes, respect yourself, but the concept ‘high status’ really rubs me the wrong way. Do it the right way, don’t pretend that you are doing it. This one shows a profound lack of insight in human psychology. Don’t talk negatively to yourself, don’t victimize yourself. By the way, I know very few women who read chick magazines and take them seriously… Learn from james bond, nip/tuck, californication and mad men. But yes, flirting is about creating building and releasing tension, and so is humor. ‘Slow sex: the art and craft of the female orgasm’ by Nicole Daedone is supposed to be good. Most women will go into the most unbelievable amount of detail as to what they enjoy in bed if they simply feel that you truly care. Again, don’t feel as though you have to bend over backwards to entertain women. If she clearly doesn’t like that, then stop, and continue the seduction process. Look past the content to see what is really going on. There’s a not so subtle loathing of women lurking underneath these laws, and I don’t like that. Intelligent conversation (engaging her mind therefore) is a huge turn-on. But to run away from her on purpose just so you can leave her wanting more is just silly and fake. That means that you are ok with who you are and you don’t need to show off, nor do you have to hide or to be very invested in what others think of you or pretend someone your not.4. When I bitch or complain about things, I don’t feel responsible for them – that might be a secondary pay-off for being a wussy. What’s good about it: yes, complaining won’t get you anywhere. If she doesn’t like you, it is her loss – not yours (or she is a lesbian). It’s true you shouldn’t over-analyze rejection or anything you may perceive as rejection, but to walk around thinking that you can provide a lot more to someone than they can to you, is arrogant. Plus there is no failure – it is just a lesson you have learnt in how not to do it. You will see that the lesson you have learnt would be far more valuable than the cost you have paid. Don’t have any distractions – have a tunnel vision on what you want to achieve. find your center, become centered and make yourself the center. Objectify your demons so that you control them instead of them controlling you. Don’t worry about them and learn to conciously make sure that they never control you. Make yourself a priority in your life and do what is right for yourself and achieving the goals that you want to achieve. You can give more, if you take care of yourself first. Surround yourself with success models and eliminate failure models from your life and mind. If others freak out, you instead have to become calmer and a cold-calculating machine. No, you don’t need to become a psychopath, or a cyborg or a robot. Remember if a girl doesn’t want you, it is her loss and not yourself. Hey, there are 77 of them, we can’t expect every single one to be a life-changing gem. If you’re truly hurting don’t try to just put a happy face on it. Often what we hate in others is something we are guilty of as well. If you find you dislike someone this can teach you a lot about yourself. Eliminate all negative/distructive habits and start adapting positive/constructive habits in your life. Just take a break, think logically and do what is right. The way you talk to yourself influences who you become. Find people with high potential and then help them achieve the best they can. You could get a very wrong idea by reading magazines like that and take them at face value. Don’t be arrogant but rather a douchebag who is a lot of fun. You could say something like: if that’s making you uncomfortable I’ll look somewhere else (look into her eyes of course). If she does something that you don’t like or approve of, bust her balls. Never let a woman walk over you, just because you are attracted to her. Woman will be expecting you to fit a next appointment.
This isn’t a call for passivity, it’s a call not to complain about what is, but to take a good look at what it is and what you can do about it. To be succesful with women you need to genuinely feel good about who you are. Make it as clear and vivid as possible so that you can feel yourself living it. You should look on the inside to figure out if everyone else is on the right page. All a woman will do is see if you are who you appear to be and if you are really interested in her. It’s true that women usually need some time apart from you, after you met, to be able to truly fall for you. Remember she is not in search of a male girlfriend. – (absolutely awful title, horrible cover, but a good book and not dirty at all…) Get inside her: Dirty Dating Tips & Secrets From A Woman, by Marni Kinrys PS I’m sort of hoping the somewhat misogynistic undertone slipped into these laws because someone summarized them and threw them on the internet in this form, I’d have to listen through the original audio track to know for sure.