Online dating how to write a message
We know that’s going to piss a lot of people off, and we’re more or less tongue-in-cheek with this advice, but it’s what the numbers say.
A lot of real-world dating advice tells men to be more confident, but apparently hemming and hawing a little works well online.
There is nothing inherent about initiating an email conversation that screams out “desperate”.
However…Where most women screw up that first email contact is by taking one of two approaches: 1) telling him how great he is, or 2) explaining why you’re great and why he should write back to you.“But…doesn’t that just about cover it? ”Presuming you’ve had a man write to you before, is it really all that interesting when he tells you that he thinks you’re cute?
The result: a set of rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when introducing yourself. Let’s go: Netspeak, bad grammar, and bad spelling are huge turn-offs.
Our negative correlation list is a fool’s lexicon: was also a successful word, but much less so (33%).
Although the data shows this advice holds true for both sexes, it’s mostly directed at guys, because they are way more likely to talk about looks.