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I have cut and paste my email correspondence with X below that includes links to the study, X’s results from his own private study, and my female commentary. I can totally understand why women are giving you more attention with the new picture. I know this example is a great online dating tip that other men can use. I think you hit the nail on the head about not trying as hard.
Email from X Hi Marni, I wanted to tell you about an online dating experience I had which was incredibly fascinating… It’s way more eye catching and really paints a picture of a moment with you. This would be a great service you could offer….profile photo critiques!
Within two days of posting my looking-away photo on Okcupid (attached), I received 22 new visits to my profile. I continue to receive many more profile visits than I received previously. I think the reason looking off gets more attention because it feels like you are not trying as hard. No regrets, but I see a lot of value in photo (and profile) feedback. I know that many other men need that female eye to tell them if their pictures are working for them or against them.
There’s some very useful info here…they’ve studied thousands of profiles: https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures/ https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/dont-be-ugly-by-accident/ I hope you find this useful. Before I make my comments, I would love to see your old pictures so I can compare. To be honest, in this pic you look super cute and attractive. I will definitely make that service available to other men.
It’s […] Read more When it comes to dating, it’s not just the women who worry about, will he like me, will we get on, what shall I wear etc etc.
In actual fact, most man go through all the above fears just like women do.
So you gotta make sure you are selecting the proper pictures.
X ——— X attached a picture of himself looking away from camera which I have included here. Again, thank you for letting me share this with others.
My initial response when I saw this picture was, that guy is super cute, I would date him. Keep me posted with your online dating success 🙂 Marni —– The point of the profile picture is meant to give women a snapshot into your life.
Online dating is a […] Read more In theory, online dating is the ideal way to meet your ‘perfect match’, yet a surprisingly small percentage of members are actually successful in finding what they seek online.
There are, however, some simple guidelines, which if implemented, will greatly increase your chances of success in the online dating arena. Firstly, it is Read more Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, sometimes no matter how hard you try there is always a feeling, that there is someone out there just for you that you are not able to find.
X, told me about a recent study, done by Okcupid, which discovered that women are more attracted to men who look away from the camera in their profiles pics. It makes it less obvious that you are participating in dating online.