Parent dating after death

My husband battled cancer for 18 months, I started grieving the moment I heard the word cancer. Wishing you peace and a recovery in this difficult time, Hello i am a 51 yr old male with my wife recently diagnosed stage 4 PC, Your dad is the same age as me i have been with my wife for 32 yrs.There were flags along the way prior to the diagnosis. this may not be the long standing woman for him,but he is on the hunt... If iwas in your fathers situtation i would be scared of bad luck , In my opinion he should be ashamed of himself and should not in NO WAY be bringing someone new into your lifes.Wild rose maybe you are wild , What is the appoprate greiving time welllllll ummmmm how about brining your boyfreind to your husbands funeral that would enough i guess.Let me ask you do you wright for JERRY SPRINGER SHOW! On Nov 09, 2014 AM Town1157 wrote: Wild rose maybe you are wild , What is the appoprate greiving time welllllll ummmmm how about brining your boyfreind to your husbands funeral that would enough i guess.You are still grieving your mother and right now is not the time to see the new woman with your father and being around the family.

I'm so sorry about your mother and the way you are feeling right towards your father. My husband died on May 2014 in the last 2 1/2 months have been seeing someone my daughters were like you didn't like the idea or want to see me with anyone so I keep a low profile. and to this I said where is it written how and when our loss will be over.now it's been close to 7 months since she passed and my dad keeps asking if i will meet this woman and hang out with her. it makes my skin crawl even to think that she has been to our house and to our family cabin up north with my dad.she's started posting photos and things on his facebook page and she recently gave my dad a gift to pass on to my 1-year-old daughter (who she's never met). the last time my dad called me to ask if i would meet her was literally on the 6-month anniversary of my mom's death... i'm worried he will want to include her in thanksgiving festivities, which are already going to be so sad because my mom won't be there. or is it legitimate that i don't want her to be a part of my life?More likely I grieved some 2 years and he will be gone 1. there are always struggles and problems in relationships... my understanding is men move on much faster than woman. I would pray for him and ask for forgivness from mom , You dont need two family tradgedys!5 years so in total, it has been some 3 years that I have been in grief mode. for me 33 years, I feel while I still have reminders everyday, and cannot give up all the good memories, no marriage is picture perfect. I HOPE YOUR FAMILY CAN ENJOY HOLIDAYS and hope your fathercan find some self respect!