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But as I have covered, the unfair cultural pressures and limited choice of economic progression force the hand into the fire.So the word “choice” becomes an ambiguous one at best.Girl hears from another girl that working in a bar in the city, or on one of the popular tourist islands, is the best way to make fast money, and to meet a rich foreign boyfriend who will be prepared to take on her kids and support her parents (or a story very similar to that).
I mean, once you've sold your body a few times the deed is done; it's pointless returning to disappoint your parents with the news that you didn't make it in the “big city” after all.What I see in the bar is not a piece of meat to be exploited, but a girl that grew up believing that one day when she finishes school (if possible), she would find a good job and be able to make her parents proud.I don’t see a girl who grew up aspiring to be a dirty old man’s fantasy, or a girl who aspired to have nightly sex with western men she doesn't find attractive.They are low income earning men that will (generally) resemble similar characteristics to the inadequate man they were once married to.As we know, gambling, alcoholism and abuse is rife in such economic settings. Moreover, once a Thai girl has been in the bar, she will struggle to get a Thai boyfriend at all.
I see a girl who has sacrificed her own happiness, and potentially her mental stability, for the benefit of others. And then I see a plethora or foreign men coming to exploit, not help, as they may proclaim, the unfortunate situation of a woman failed by a society that does not provide social welfare or adult education for single mothers, and does not hold men in the slightest bit accountable for their offspring.